Our desires have to be placed under Christ’s control. God instructs us to choose conduct that is holy and honorable. The great news is when we submit to God’s design, we avoid the negative consequences of sin and avoid hurting ourselves and others with our actions.
God’s will is for you to be holy, so stay away from all sexual sin. Then each of you will control his own body and live in holiness and honor
~ 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 [NLT]