God blessed us with marriage to be the primary person that shows your spouse God’s love for them. It’s not because they deserve it or have earned it, but because of the grace you have been given. This will mean you are the first person to say sorry, or you will have to come home from work to help your spouse clean, or you take the blame when it’s not your fault. What can you do for your spouse today that reveals God’s love for them?
And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
~ Ephesians 5:21 [NLT]